..........ExPreSs YoUrSelf......

by Jennifer Good Your whole world can suddenly seem turned upside down when you learn the sad reality that the love you thought was forever is now over. It's like unexpectedly being doused with an icy cold bucket of water. You're instantly forced to look at everything differently and realize your day to day life will no longer include the one you love. However, the key to holding onto any type of future relationship with this person is keeping your dignity and grace during your time of discomfort and pain. You may not be thinking about it now, but a great friendship could still develop out of this relationship. You cared for them enough to enter into a romantic relationship, so it stands to reason they just might make a great friend in the future. The way you react or act during this period will determine the likelihood of this. If in fact, you are going through a break up right now, keep in mind these tips for keeping a level head. 1. Don't initiate contact for at least two weeks. If they call you, keep the conversation short and do NOT rehash what went wrong. 2. If you feel you must say something to them; go buy a journal and write down everything you are feeling and want to say. Even go so far as to address the letter to them, however, do NOT mail it. This is just a vessel for getting your thoughts out. Trust me; you'll be glad you kept your thoughts to yourself someday! 3. Make sure to express your gratitude about having the opportunity to share so many pleasant memories with them. Wish them well with whatever future may be in store for them. 4. Do not spend hours upon hours deliberating by yourself or with friends about what could have gone wrong. It isn't healthy to dwell on the past or the negative. If you need to powwow with friends, focus on doing creative or action-oriented things to keep your mind busy. 5. As soon as you are able to start shifting your focus to your new life. You've just been given a new opportunity to start on a new path. What will it be? Take this time to do something you've always wanted, but just didn't get to while you were with your ex. 6. Accept responsibility that you contributed to the demise of the relationship, however, that it was also a two-way street. There's no need to dwell on what each person "did" or "did not" do. Assess for yourself what relationship areas you could probably address for future relationships and make a commitment to do something about it. 7. If your ex wants to give the relationship another chance, don't say yes immediately. Take some time to really gauge whether the original problems have been handled. If they haven't, it will only be a matter of time before you're going through all of this again. 8. If your ex is already seeing someone new, try your best to avoid seeing them together. Take comfort in the knowledge that if they were interested enough to date someone else, they were never your Mr. or Ms. Right! That means your perfect someone is still out there waiting to be found. WHAT DO U THINK GUYS? IS IT FAIR ENOUGH? :)

by : Blue Cruel to the eye I see the way he makes you smile Cruel to the eye Watching him hold what used to be mine Why did I lie Why did I wander where to fly Ooh why Ooh why And I.........can't breathe easy I cant sleep at night Until your by my side No I........can't breathe easy I cant dream you had another dream without you lying next to me There's no way Crushed me inside For every word that caused you to cry Crushed me inside I wont forget, no I wont baby I Don't know why (Don't know why) I left the one I was looking to find Ooh why Ooh why WHY I.........can't breathe easy I cant sleep at night Until your by my side No I........can't breathe easy (Breathe easy) I cant dream you had another dream without you lying next to me, there's no way No I.........can't breathe easy I cant dream you had another dream without you lying next to me, there's no way Out of my mind Nothing makes sense anymore I want you back in my life That's all I'm breathing for Ooh I...................... Tell me why................ Ooh Tell me why I cant dream you had another dream without you lying next to me, there's no way no no no no no I................can't breathe easy I cant sleep at night Until your...by my side Yeah I...................Can't breathe easy No I... I can't dream you had another dream without you lying next to me, there's no way There's no way

by : Jed Madela

I was wrong when I hurt you
But did you have to hurt me too
Did you think revenge will make it better?
I don?t care about the past
I just want our love to last
There?s a way to bring us back together

CHORUS:

I must forgive you (I must forgive you)
You must forgive me too (we must have to try)
If you wanna try to put things back the way they used to be
honey let?s start again)
?Cause there?s no sense in going over and over
The same things as before
So let?s not bring the past back anymore
(no looking back, we can?t look back)
(honey let?s start again)

Out of all the good we had
You only keep track of the bad
Though you knew I never really loved her
Didn?t anyone tell you yet
That to forgive is to forget
How can you be mad if you don?t remember

CHORUS:

I must forgive you (I must forgive you)
You must forgive me too (we must have to try)
If you wanna try to put things back the way they used to be
(honey let?s start again)
?Cause there?s no sense in going over and over
The same things as before
So let?s not bring the past back anymore
(no looking back, we can?t look back)
(honey let?s start again)

I must forgive you
And you must forgive me too
It?s the only thing that?s left that we haven?t try to do
One thing I?m sure will work
That we haven?t tried before
Let?s not bring the past back anymore
(no looking back, no looking back)
(honey let?s start again)

 

 

r u going back to the who loves YOU, or  u gonna stay with the one u LOVE?????

* the most tiring to do----> TO THINK

this is correct bcoz wen u think of something or somebody, you can be empty especially is doesn't matched with your own expectation....

* the most expensive ---> SMILE.....

* the most hardest to regain ---> TRUST

* the most painful ---> LOSS

* the easiest escape ----> TO PRETEND

* the most challenging ---> TO MOVE ON

it's hard to let go..but is it for your own good or else you'll suffer for the rest of ur life....

* the bravest thing to do ---> TO LOVE

if you're not ready....stay put and wait for your readiness or until u get old (LOL)

* the most effective solution ---> TO PRAY

remember that which ever way we take, God is always there for us!